Women are mysterious creatures. It is no wonder most guys do not understand them, let alone know how to please them. Follow these simple steps to get your woman in the mood for the bedroom.
Make sure your girl is in the mood to make love. If she does not seem excited about the notion at the moment then her heart and emotions are not into it for one reason or the other. Give her the space she needs and maybe try again tomorrow night. Most importantly do not get made at her and do not act frustrated towards her. It will only hurt you later.
Tell her that she is beautiful or compliment her on something she worked hard on like her hair or wardrobe. Girls like to feel that you find them attractive. It makes them feel better about themselves and they need to feel attractive first before they can get in the mood. This is completely opposite of the way men are but you must understand this difference before you can succeed at pleasing your woman.
Do not rush into the bedroom. Maybe on the couch you can start caressing her and kissing her slowly. Get her in the mood and make her want to take it to the next level herself. In other words let her be the aggressor. She will like that.
Offer to give her a massage after her hard day at work. Start massaging her shoulders then her neck. After she relaxes offer to continue the massage in the bedroom with a naughty massage. She will love that.
Once you have your girlfriend or wife in the bedroom, proceed slowly and show more emotion in your lovemaking than usual. Try to make her the center of attention and cater to her needs. Please her first, and when she asks about you just say you want to please her, she shouldn’t worry about you. This will drive her wild and make her want to please you at all costs.
After you finish you are still not done. Show her affection after your lovemaking is over. If she likes to cuddle or talk afterward, fulfill her needs. If you do so she will look forward to the next time, and you soon may find that she will be the one initiating the lovemaking.
A woman’s pleasure center is different than men’s and is located all over her body via her skin. This means that to really drive her wild you must caress her all over her body, not just her arousal zones.